What Is It About Women and Attention?

[Abe]

I didn't read the whole thread but in response to your first post. Times have changed and woman believe and look at relationships differnt then those time by far. Cant even compare the two. Now as for if u should take her shot and back down and give her more time, he'll yes u should do u really thing u will find another single attractive bulldog lovin woman that checks all the things that u can't see from a forum. Everyone has short coming and faults that sounds like a pretty reasonable fault to me ! Atleast she ain't gone crazy on you over it or fuck your buddy sayin u don't pay enough attention to me ! Keeper man she is a good woman the way you always refer to her ! Single sucks ass not many good single woman left !!!!!

[Officially Retired]

Well jack they say time heals all imo it doesn't heal all it just gives you enough space to cope. Jack i wish i could help you the way you have me threw this learing experience. But all i can give is advice and a shoulder to lean on at any time you feel you need someone to talk to or just listen just email me jack and I'll send you my number. Because i have nothing but the utmost respect for you jack. So how ever i can help please let me know!

Thank you for your nice offer and you kind words, they're very much appreciated.



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I didn't read the whole thread but in response to your first post. Times have changed and woman believe and look at relationships differnt then those time by far. Cant even compare the two. Now as for if u should take her shot and back down and give her more time, he'll yes u should do u really thing u will find another single attractive bulldog lovin woman that checks all the things that u can't see from a forum. Everyone has short coming and faults that sounds like a pretty reasonable fault to me ! Atleast she ain't gone crazy on you over it or fuck your buddy sayin u don't pay enough attention to me ! Keeper man she is a good woman the way you always refer to her ! Single sucks ass not many good single woman left !!!!!

I agree, her need for more attention is reasonable, if this was an ongoing problem; however, I find it a bit unreasonable given the volume of work I have to do and the long-term benefits of it, once completed. It already takes me all day to care for the dogs, get my products/orders handled, keep the yard straight (it takes 6 hours just to mow the lawn here, let alone tend to the garden), etc., and when adding the amount of work that needs to be done to construct two massive websites and databases, this just ain't gonna get done watching TV and snuggling-up on the couch. It takes A LOT of effort above and beyond a normal day's work, and she just needs to come to terms with this fact, or I guess do what she's doing and refuse to accept it. As far as that other stuff, she is a good woman and a good person and wouldn't stoop to a low level like that. I wouldn't even waste my time with someone like that. The issue here is the maturity to accept a period of "down time" in our relationship while I try to build some monuments ... which, once completed, will only enable us to enjoy our relationship all the more.

Jack