Quote Originally Posted by Ipk
I think this thread and hottest dogwoman thread jinxed me. Read these posts earlier and was planning on contributing to both these topics... Thought I had made a lover of the dogs out of my woman... WAS GOING TO BRAG!
30 minutes ago I received a call from her telling me she was moving out. WOW! Didn't see that one coming.
My advice: hope for good luck
Wow, I am sorry to hear that my friend.

I know we've had our differences, but that is no fun to go through: to think you have one thing (but in reality you have another). Maybe it would be worth it just to just sit her down and ask directly, "What is wrong exactly and what can be done to make it right?" So all may not be lost.

Ultimately, however, this kind of thing is what makes humans so unpredictable: secret thoughts. A person, no matter how seemingly-sweet and no matter how they appear to be on the outside, can always be thinking "secret thoughts" on the inside to the contrary. This is what makes TRUST such a hard thing to come by. Only after many years of doing what they say they'll do, and coming through for you despite any adversity, can any person truly be trusted. And there are not a lot of people who can pass that test over time. This is what makes anyone want to take their hat off for truly good, longterm relationship they know of. They're tough to come by!

The dogs what they are: honest and direct, which is why a TRULY game dog holds so much value. Yet even the rankest curs don't have "secret thoughts"; they never plot anything against you. They are what they are and they do what they do.

Good luck to you & hope things work out for the best,

Jack


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