Brother, you make MANY valid points! Now, without knowing her side--YES, there are always two sides...LOL--I can only say that before you make any rash decisions ask yourself: what would it be like to live WITHOUT her and, maybe, you might get closer to the answer you seek. Relationships, unfortunately, are like the international realm of politics...it's day by day...basically, the same two countries who are in bed with each other today, are bombing each other tommorow. The toughest part about a relationship is that compromises will be made, however, there is always that fine line where one either decides to sacrifice one's own happiness (in certain percentages) to make the other person happy, nonetheless, the big problem is recognizing when that sacrifice is at the cost of your OWN happiness. Most people get mad at me when I ask them: Do you love yourself more than her? Why, because this is what it takes to truly be honest when it comes to the sacrifices a relationship calls for! I truly hope it works out for you and communication can solve these issues for you, remember, this maybe a minor skirmish, perhaps it will blow over with diplomacy (communication), but remember when the deal is off...it's over, and sometimes with women...there is no turning back. It sounds like you are really happy with her, it's just at this moment both of your personal interests are conflicting...

And this is why we truly love are Dogs...unconditional love...without having to sacrifice our own happiness back to them. Imagine if all you needed to do was the clicking noise and the ol' clap of the hands to solve relationship issues with women...LMAO!

Best wishes!