I've missed out a number of times because I could not get all the things lined up and would not send money to someone I did not know. It is part of the deal.
The closest thing is I built a mill once and traded it for a puppy that was on the way. 10-12 years ago and he is still on the way. LOL
It happens. In the dogs you will meet some of the nicest, most respectful, completely honest people in the world and the very next one you meet, not so much.
Hopefully the situation gets worked out between the two parties. Best of luck.
EWO