Thanks.
People will always be cool when they need you (pump you for information, resources, a place to put their dogs, etc.).
Many will lean on you ... even come to depend on you ... over and over and over again ... but if "you" have the audacity to "say something" to them (i.e., give them a reality check) ... they will invariably turn on a dime, and tell the world what a "jerk" you are
Jack